Following are simple and reasonable boundaries that give us all structure and allow you to heal and grow. I/we love you and want you to succeed in everything you do. I/we will support your efforts so long as you respect the following:
These boundaries are all or nothing. Choosing to ignore any one of these boundaries - even once - is to choose drugs over sanity. There are consequences for choosing insanity. Consequences for violating any of the boundaries are as follows:
Should you choose insanity, I/we suggest you call the local Health and Human Services Crisis Line at _______________________________________ for information on free County resources, including motel vouchers, shelters, detox, counseling, food banks, clothing, medical care and suicide prevention.
I/we realize I/we have an issue with "enabling" unhealthy behavior. As a result I/we commit to working a program of Al-Anon by going to meetings, reading, getting a sponsor and affording you the dignity of resolving your own messes in the future.
It is my/our hope that you use this opportunity to get sober, grow, find your passion in life and get back on your feet financially.